(The Lonely Wife) : A quintessential study of the Boudi’s emotional isolation and restricted spaces. Charitrahin
The Boudi enters the household as an outsider. She leaves her baba-bari (father’s house) to serve her sasural (in-laws). Her relationship with her husband is often policed by the Thakuma (grandmother) and Saas (mother-in-law). Romance is seen as a threat to family discipline. A husband who smiles too much at his wife is accused of being bou-er baul (henpecked). Thus, intimacy becomes a covert operation. (The Lonely Wife) : A quintessential study of